Why do I cringe at Christmas?
Is it the expense? No – although it is a consideration.
Is it because I have to find pressies for relatives I hardly know. Not really – I like choosing and giving gifts.
Is it the thought of the potential for overeating a mass of stuff that’s totally unhealthy but that I enjoy so much? Partly – but I get over it!
Is it because I am a Humbug?
No. It’s none of those things. The real reason I cringe at Christmas is because of the burden the earth has to bear.
So this is a plea that your family – you and the children – consider ways to make your Christmas less of a burden for the earth.
Part of their education is about the planet. To understand it better. To build knowledge of its species. To appreciate how they are part of it and how to relate to it in sustainable ways. We cannot abandon our responsibility to that just because it’s Christmas.
It doesn’t mean a kill-joy Christmas. It just means finding a better balance to what you do. And asking a few questions:
- How can we moderate the waste we make?
- How can we give without the earth bearing the brunt of it?
- What can we reuse, recycle, make, rather than buy? (Wrapping paper as well as presents perhaps)
- What throw- away articles can we do without? (Wipes, serviettes, paper tableware, for example)
- How can you make a Christmas that doesn’t cost the earth? Make more of it instead of buying it!
- Ask before you buy: do I really need this?
- And consider how much more stuff the kids really need? Love isn’t bought or given through presents.
Giles Brandreth has a lovely idea that he expressed in the media recently. He’s going to tell his grandchildren that he doesn’t want any more stuff. What he’d like from them instead is for them to learn a poem off by heart for Christmas.
Learning poetry has a beneficial effect on the brain, helping with language development and flexible thinking – so he’s perhaps giving them a gift in releasing the kids from present buying whilst boosting their development at the same time!
But whatever you do for Christmas, creating or learning poetry or whatever, please do it with consideration of the earth.