Lockdown: a good time to question

Well I wasn’t going to put my own mugshot on here, my daughter’s much more photogenic!

My daughter’s given me a haircut.

Is she a hairdresser? No! Does she have any idea about what she’s doing? No! Has she had any training about shaping a short cut?


But stuck in during Lockdown and unable to go to the hairdressers I decided to risk it or end up looking like a shaggy dog.

It’s turned out brilliantly. Choppy admittedly but that’s just how I like it. Which has made me question why the heck I’m bothering traipsing to the hairdressers once a month.

Lockdown is inevitably making us confront and question many parts of our life. And I suspect there are others who are now questioning those things they suddenly find they can do for themselves, children’s learning being one of them.

A huge majority of parents have been thrust into the scary position of having their children learn at home, when they wouldn’t choose to. But I guess in some cases, where it’s working quite well, it’s prompting questions about what goes on in schools.

Now I’m not questioning the incredible skills of good hairdressers or brilliant teachers. Neither am I suggesting they’re the same thing! And of course this is only a temporary situation.

What I am suggesting is that lockdown is raising questions about schooling and learning that have long needed to be asked. Questions like; what are schools actually providing – educationally, holistically, health wise, or in terms of child care perhaps? Do kids actually need teachers in order to learn? Or do they need a more nurturing environment in order to reach potential? Can a DIY style home education work just as well as that which schools provide?

The answer to the final question is a definite yes; thousands of home educating families have already proved it. And there is a generation of home schooled youngsters now out in the world working, earning, contributing, and no one would ever know they’d not been to school – as one colleague commented to my eldest.

So there is plenty of proof that home educating is a very successful approach to learning if a child isn’t thriving in school as ours weren’t, as many don’t.

Some just exist, or endure, but is that enough?

A lot of parents say that they’d like to home educate but are worried about the risk. My answer to that would be that we take risks with everything we do, home educating or sending kids to school – certainly with impromptu haircuts and even those at the hairdressers actually!

But whatever we do with our children we can engage in a continual process of review, reassessment, research and analysis of what’s not working and find an approach that does and adapt. Which is more than I can say when I take the risk with a haircut – can hardly stick it back on again if it goes wrong!

We are not going to remain unchanged by this time of lockdown. And perhaps one of the good things that will come of it will be that we review our ideas, values and priorities about many things. The approach to learning and educating our children among them.

This time of school-at-home is not the same as home educating, where you develop a completely different approach to learning than the prescriptive ones schools have to adopt. But if your child has thrived, and you have survived during your time without school in your family life, you might want to reconsider your priorities about schooling and take a more in depth look at the alternative that thousands find fulfilling and successful.

There is plenty of support now to help you!

8 thoughts on “Lockdown: a good time to question

  1. Hi, I’ve just found this site. I’d love to take my son out of school: the last 3 month have been a joke. What is challenging is that he’s 14 and due to start GCSEs… it would be so much easier if he was younger as it will be a huge adjustment for us. Any thoughts?

    • Hi Julie, great to hear from you and you voice the feelings of many families! It is always a huge adjustment to home educating whatever age the youngsters are, but people manage and yes – others have started home educating during the teen years too – with much relief and success! At this age particularly it’s important to know how your son would feel about leaving and educating at home. Although I guess you’ve had a bit of practise at that already, but home schooling is very different to school-at-home which has been forced on parents recently, and there are so many different approaches that give you such flexibility, both of content and timewise. (Some of my recent posts explain) Some of the teens who are used to school miss seeing their mates everyday, others are glad to get away from the hubbub! However, there are home school teen groups that meet regularly, some for GCSE study, some socially, depending on where you’re located. It might help if you explored the various online forums for home educators; there are many across Facebook, where you can ask others doing the same and find support. You’ll find a whole parallel universe of people learning without school most of whom are very willing to share their experiences. All the best.

  2. I totally agree with Over Soil. It is one of the things that I ask people who want to know about home education, What do we really need to learn? One of the things that I think is really important is a love of learning, if we have that we can put our hand to anything and learn the things that we want to and need to.

  3. One big question comes to mind: What do we need to learn? I know that all of us need to learn skills to survive / thrive and we do as we go along in life mostly by being shown by life experiences and those include seeing what others are doing. Thing is, what can we help children and encourage children to learn that is actually important for them in their life, their future and for humanity?

    • A very pertinent question. One that I think home educators are continually asking themselves whilst trying to find a balance between all the answers! Excellent comment. Thank you.

      • I’m so often so full of questions with no answers and to be fine with that is one of the keys to peace. Do we have to know it all? For those who think they do, usually know less.

      • Absolutely agree. The most important thing to know is that you don’t know it all – that’s the only way you’ll be able to learn! An intelligent mind is a questioning mind, (like yours) not one that professes to have all the answers, or a mass of qualifications for that matter! 😉 Thanks so much for being here!

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