Are we schooling kids out of education?

It’s the time of year when many are facing the return to school – and many are not! Many are rejoicing in not returning to school and continuing with their home education…

…I couldn’t resist reblogging this story from a while back as it explains why so many choose to do so;

There was a bright little pre-schooler running through the town the other day. She was on an adventure away from mum. She stopped suddenly, turned round and realised there was an awful lot of people who weren’t mum. Her face dropped.

Mum, watching, called out to her and she went running back happily. Despite that slight panic at mum being momentarily out of sight, she didn’t hesitate to go off and explore again. After all, there’s such an intriguing amount to learn – about everything, why would she not?

Twelve years later and learning doesn’t look so appealing. In fact most of her inclination to learn has been switched off, like for many young people.

What happened?

My theory is that schooling happens.

What happens is that we corral our wonderfully idiosyncratic and diverse children into institutions which enforce comparison and competition in their most destructive forms, judge them by a narrow set of outcomes only a particular few can excel at, lead them to believe that anything else they might be good at is unimportant, stress them witless by unnecessary testing, and expect them to develop emotionally, socially, intellectually and personally within that unfortunate climate.

It has always seemed a bit ludicrous to me.

This schooling of our children is putting them off education and learning. And neglecting the education of their whole being, of their diverse potential, individual talents, and original personalities, all of which are essential to the longevity of our world.

We are chiselling youngsters down to one set of talents, one way of thinking and performing, measurable by a narrow set of definitions, invented by politicians who are ignorant of education, out to impress those parents interested only in social stature or getting the kids off their hands.

Harsh words maybe, but how many politicians know about the world outside their elite existence – let alone what’s useful for survival in it? And I’ve come across many parents who only want scores and grades for their own adult pride, or their kids minded; there are relatively few who’ve actually thought it through and reached an understanding about what’s good for their individual developmentally.

Child-minding aside, the fallacy that most believe is that kids need teachers, tests and schools to learn, develop and progress towards a fulfilling and productive life.

But in reality they don’t, as many successfully home educating families are proving.

What they need instead is to be happy, confident, interested, curious and motivated like the little girl running through the precinct. With those traits kids move themselves forward into work and life successfully, but there’s only a relative few who come out of schooling with those personal attributes intact.

And you have to define success.

Some would define a successful education from a consumerist point of view as the getting of lots of ‘good’ grades.

I wouldn’t. In fact, it’s hard to define education at all because any definition would suggest it is finite and it isn’t, it is ongoing and doesn’t have an end.

My definition of a successful education would be so interlinked with what I consider a successful life to be which has nothing to do with getting anything, grades or otherwise.

It is more to do with a practice of living that is happy and mindful and content for the most part, full of warm loving relationships, fulfilled through purposeful work, independent and responsible and that continues to build and grow and improve as we learn and educate ourselves. It’s something with encouragement young people could do for themselves – if they haven’t been put off.

Education, like life, should not be something our children have to endure till it ends so they can get on with real life, as many feel it is.

It should be an integrated part of their real lives from day one, ongoing and always accessible. It should inspire. It should be something youngsters are gagging to involve themselves in not playing truant from. And something that serves our needs as humans to develop creatively, personally and emotionally as well as intellectually. And finally, something that we should be brave enough to accept is not actually measurable as such, yet is still wonderfully successful.

Roll on the day….

4 thoughts on “Are we schooling kids out of education?

  1. Thank you for your blog and inspiring words….

    …as a mother of (now 3) small people, I was faced with the indecision of how to approach schooling, and ended up sending off my eldest to our local, lovely primary school with a few misgivings but feeling that this was perhaps the best for us all. We had our ups and downs but she has a large group of local friends, appears to have gained a hugs amount and despite some really tough mornings, has learnt that she can persevere and succeed. Now, having just started Year 1, I am finding her increasingly switched off, unresponsive and unwilling to go to school. It is ‘boring, all we do is writing…’ and this from a bright sparky young lady with a love of the world around her and a love of learning, of writing, of so much – just not so keen on the constrictions and pressures of school. Having spoken to her teacher today, a lovely and highly spoken of teacher, and also a parent, I have my own further misgivings. Tied by the curriculum and by what the children are required to achieve – so as to then achieve the next level, and the next – as well as the school’s requirements for them to achieve their targets, there is a feeling of pressure, of a need for them to be sitting and writing so as to fulfil the task in order to begin the next: the hamster wheel in force. Perhaps I should be considering home schooling again as an option, even if we will be geographically distant form other homeschooling families and communities. I am so sad to see such zeal for learning already starting to be curbed at such a young age…

    • Thank you very much for leaving your story – I can see your dilemma. Good luck with your decision and I hope you find a happy way forward for all. Don’t forget that home education doesn’t have to be for ever – some parents find that the children can get more out of school when they’re much older and it has less impact on their personality when they’re old enough to deal with influences better. Best wishes!

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